On March 25th, we will be holding an online conference exploring violent challenging behaviour in SEND children. The conference is part funded by NHS England, to bring together parents and professionals from all over the UK to address and highlight the key issues and topics affecting our community. We will look at difficult areas including parent blame, judgement and guilt as well as lack of awareness, training and understanding but we will also be celebrating some amazing successes too.

Newbold Hope recently carried out research with parents about SEND related violent and challenging behaviour.
The report is a snapshot of what parents of SEND children who have violent and challenging
behaviour really think about service provision across Health, Education and Social Services
and how most of the violent behaviour in children and young people
goes under the radar
and never gets acknowledged because it happens at home where it is less visible.

 

Follow this link to the latest research conducted by Newbold Hope which will be discussed during the conference.

Latest research regarding SEND children with Violent Challenging Behaviour

 

Newbold Hope – Who we are

Founded by Yvonne Newbold, Newbold Hope supports parents and professionals to develop the confidence and the skills they need that will enable them to reduce or completely eradicate anxiety-led difficult and dangerous behaviours in children and young people with additional needs and disabilities. We also strive to challenge the societal perceptions of judgement and blame towards families who are facing childhood behavioural difficulties, to create more compassionate understanding, support, and much needed acceptance

Newbold Hope – What we do

We are a parent-led organisation entirely run by parents who have first-hand lived experience of living with a child who presents with violent and challenging anxiety-led behaviour. We have presented over 250 live online training sessions for parents since the beginning of the pandemic, with about 30,000 bookings. We also run a large community online of families facing these challenges, which has 10,000 family members. So far, we know of over 2,000 children who have been successfully supported by adults who have attended our training sessions to significantly reduce their levels of violent episodes in terms of severity, intensity, and duration, with many of them moving beyond their difficult episodes altogether.  We know this because we receive nearly 100 messages of thanks from parents and professionals every week.

We are now looking towards making our training more accessible online as e-learning courses, with versions for both parents and professionals .

Newbold Hope – Why a Conference?

We are shortly hosting this conference in response to the findings in our recent report about “SEND-related violent and challenging behaviour – why Families are being failed by Health, education and Social Services

 

The report highlighted a number of issues, and this Conference will specifically focus on three of the report’s Key Findings which are:-

1. The lack of training about anxiety led difficult and dangerous behaviour for staff working across education, health, and social care

2. Which leads to staff blaming parents for their child’s behaviour and how this can also impact on the children of the family

3. The prevalence of childhood violence at home versus at school – and how violence that happens at home is far less likely to be recorded, documented or acknowledged in any way, and how these impacts of the development and availability of service provision.

We are hoping to bring parents and the staff who work with this group of children together to talk openly with each other in the breakout discussions. These discussions will be informed by the conference speakers who are experts in their fields. We’d love to give everyone a chance to have the sort of conversations that are impossible when both groups of people usually meet, because the meeting agenda is almost always centred around the child and their needs. We will be creating an emotionally safe space where some exploring ideas, potential solutions and identifying common ground can happen in meaningful conversations which will be carefully facilitated.  All our facilitators will have attended a pre-event training session with clear guidance on how to ensure that as many voices as possible are heard. They will also be given a list of questions to ask to keep conversations going, encouraging the sharing of lived experiences, success, local solutions, or anything that might have helped.

Who are the speakers?

Phil Brayshaw, Acting Head of Children and Young People, National Learning Disability and Autism Programme NHS England

Professor Frank Besag, Consultant NeuroPsychiatrist, East London NHS Foundation Trust

Rachel Tomlinson, Head Teacher, Barrowford School

Dr Mark Brown, Senior Lecturer, Kingston University

Yvonne Newbold MBE, Founder, Newbold Hope

Additionally there will be contributions from families with lived experience, including one young man with a history of anxiety-led difficult behaviour.


Why should you come?

Violent and challenging behaviour in children and young people is a growing societal problem that nobody talks about, and everyone feels out of their depth and unprepared when it happens.  Together we can find better ways of supporting this group of children and their families in a compassionate and understanding way, but only if we can understand and acknowledge what these families need most of all. Bringing together all stakeholders at this conference is a first step towards making those changes and enabling many more of our children to reach happier times with promising futures ahead, instead of an adulthood which could otherwise be dominated by the criminal justice system. At Newbold Hope that’s exactly what we do – we give hope to thousands of families every single day. We’d love you to be doing that with the children you care for who so badly need this sort of help right now, before it’s too late.

Meet the speakers

We've lined up some inspirational speakers

Yvonne Newbold, MBE


Dr. Mark Brown


Phil Brayshaw


Gill Phillips


Rachel Tomlinson


Proff. Frank Besaq


Yvonne Newbold, MBE

Yvonne Newbold MBE is an expert-by-experience in Learning Disability and Autism thanks to her son, Toby, who has taught her so much over the past 27 years. She is also the Founder of Newbold Hope which provides help, support, and training to parents and professionals who care for SEND children and young people who behave in difficult and dangerous ways. Due to this work, she now knows several hundred families who have been able to move their children beyond their violent or extreme behaviour episodes and who are now living much happier lives and with a much more optimistic future ahead of them. Yvonne is also a member of the NHS Assembly and works with the NHS to amplify the voices of her community at a national policy and strategy level in many other streams of work associated with learning disabilities and autism. Yvonne’s book, “The Special Parent’s Handbook” is an Amazon number one bestseller, and she does all this work as part of the “bucket-list” commitment she made when she was diagnosed with Stage 4 breast cancer with a very poor prognosis. She received an MBE in the 2021 New Year’s Honours List for services to children with special educational needs and disabilities and to their families.

 

 

Dr. Mark Brown

Since October 2020, Mark has been a Senior Lecturer at Kingston University where he teaches on the Learning Disability Nursing Courses.

In addition to Mark’s everyday work, he was a regular contributor for The LIME Magazine in which Mark was also the resident “Agony Uncle” in his Ask Mark column. Although The LIME Magazine is no longer in circulation, Mark has continued to provide such input via regular drop in sessions in the London Borough of Sutton, as well as other areas throughout the year. Mark has also written chapters for a number of books, including:

  • Claire Bates (2018) Sexuality and Learning Disabilities (2nd edition) – Practical approaches to providing positive support
  • Renee Francis et al (2018) Learning Disability Today (4th Edition) – The essential guide for support staff, service providers, families and students

Other Publications

Away from his work, Mark also runs a social club for adults with learning disabilities aimed at developing their social skills and confidence in using them.

Dr Mark Brown – Special Needs Consultant

RNLD, PhD, MA Autism, Dip App Psych, Dip Prof Prac



Phil Brayshaw

Phil Brayshaw | Head of Children and Young People at NHS England and NHS Improvement

Phil is a nurse for people with learning disabilities. He works for NHS England and NHS Improvement on the National Learning Disability and Autism Programme, where his role is to help local areas commission and provide better support and services for autistic children and young people and children and young people with learning disabilities. Before this, Phil worked as a children’s intensive support nurse, family therapist and as a local children’s commissioner.



Gill Phillips

Creator of the award-winning Whose Shoes? concept and tools: a multi-perspective approach to transforming health and social care, through listening to people and working together for positive change. Host of the ‘Whose Shoes – Wild Card’ podcast series including chatting to Yvonne Newbold, founder of Newbold Hope!

A connector and strong believer in people, grassroots change and what we can all achieve … together! #NoHierarchyJustPeople

Gill is listed in the HSJ100, most influential people in healthcare, as a Wild Card! A perceptive thinker, skilled at highlighting barriers and inconsistencies in policy and practice and devising innovative ways to break down taboos and stigma. An international speaker, she gives lively, challenging talks and workshops and is a champion of the full involvement of ‘experts by experience’.



Rachel Tomlinson

“Atticus, he was real nice."
"Most people are, Scout, when you finally see them.” 

Harper Lee, To Kill a Mockingbird 

 

Rachel Tomlinson is the headteacher of Barrowford Primary School in Lancashire.   

Rachel is committed to educating the whole child both in terms of academic attainment and social and emotional literacy and wellbeing.  

Barrowford has a Relationships Policy based on a sanction and reward free context for all children, enabling a safe and secure environment for all the community to develop an intrinsic desire to exceed their best, to imbue a passion for learning and to have healthy and respectful relationships. 

 

 

Professor Frank Besaq

Professor Frank M C Besag FRCP FRCPsych FRCPCH,

Consultant Neuropsychiatrist at East London Foundation NHS trust in Bedford and visiting Professor at University College London and Kings College London.

Professor Besag graduated from Birmingham with the Queen's Scholarship (top student) and honours in paediatrics.  He trained at Birmingham Children's, John Radcliffe, Great Ormond Street, Royal Manchester Children's, Hammersmith and Maudsley Hospitals.  Honorary consultant posts include Great Ormond Street, Kings College and Maudsley Hospitals.  He is fellow of the Royal Colleges of Physicians, Psychiatrists and Paediatrics & Child Health.  He was Medical Director/CEO of The National Centre for Young People with Epilepsy and has lectured in over 30 countries. With more than 200 publications, he is an author/reviewer for many international journals.  Interests include: autism, ADHD, intellectual disability, epilepsy and brain-behaviour relationships.


 

Meet your host

The Newbold Hope Spring Conference is hosted by Yvonne Newbold, MBE. 

Yvonne Newbold is the Founder of Newbold Hope, a parent-led organisation working with parents and professionals to reduce anxiety-led violent and challenging behaviour in children and young people who also have a disability or an additional need. Yvonne's son, Toby, is the reason behind everything that Newbold Hope does - she never wants any other family to wait as long as hers did to be able to move their child towards happier times and beyond their difficult behaviour episodes.

The Newbold Hope Approach is based on curiosity and kindness - keeping an open mind, asking all those "why" questions, and extending kindness, compassion and understanding toward the child while reconnecting and rebuilding strong relationships. This approach works - Newbold Hope  knows of over 2,000 families who have used this approach successfully with their children, who are now much happier and calmer and with a much more hopeful future to look forward to.

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Frequently Asked Questions

These are some of the questions people most frequently ask us:

Will we have to be on video?

No, you're welcome to keep the camera and microphone off if you'd prefer, and you'll still be able to ask questions and join in the discussions using the text chat-box

Will I be able to ask questions?

Absolutely. We love to hear your thoughts, ideas and questions - there will be Q and A sessions as well as smaller group discussions in break out rooms throughout the day. 

Is this suitable for me?

If you are the parent or a professional looking after a child with SEND and  who also displays anxiety-led difficult or dangerous behaviour, then yes, this conference is suitable for you.

How much does the conference ticket cost?

NHS England are very kindly funding a limited number of tickets for UK-based parents on a first come first served basis, so please book yours quickly to secure a free place. All other tickets cost £49.

  • Newbold Hope

    “I am looking forward to being with like-minded people in a safe environment where the issues are discussed openly.”

  • Newbold Hope

    “It will be interesting to find out the results of the recent research Yvonne conducted and what changes we can bring about as a result of the findings.”

  • Newbold Hope

    “I am hoping to learn from those with more experience than me how to best support my child whilst also looking after my own well-being.”